Responsive Caregiving for Your Young Child

Talk to your child:

• Talking to your child helps them feel connected to you and builds language development.
• Speak, sing, and read to your child throughout the day.
• Tell your child what is going on around them. Describe what you are doing and wonder out loud about what they might be feeling.

Hold your child and offer nurturing touch:

• Holding your child helps them manage their emotional and physical feelings. This can lessen emotional and physical distress, such as pain.
• Children also benefit from supportive physical touch. Try resting a hand on their chest, stroking their forehead, gently cradling their head in your hand, having them hold one of your fingers, or holding their hand, arm, leg, or foot.

Connect with your child during diaper changes and daily care routines:

• By diapering and tending to your child, you teach them that you can be trusted to attend to their needs.
• Engage with your child during daily routines by smiling, making eye contact, and talking with them.

Hold your young child during feedings:

• Young children benefit from being held while nursing, taking a bottle, or being fed through a feeding tube.

Ask your care team if there are special precautions you should take when providing responsive care in the hospital:

Remember, you know your child best. Trust yourself to notice and respond to their cues.